Bridal Showers 101

The ring has been given, the girl said, “Yes!”  With that one word, the fun begins as a season of celebrations opens, leading up to the moment where two lives officially become one.

Bridal Showers have long-been a way to honor the bride-to-be and prepare her for the journey that lies before her called Marriage.  Anyone can throw a bridal shower.  Traditionally, the maid-of-honor hosts a bridal shower, but others are more than welcome to do as well: coworkers, long-time friends, neighbors, even relatives may want to throw a family shower.  Several people may go in together to host a shower, and that is perfectly acceptable as well.

Determining a date is one of the first decisions that should be made.  Be sure to include the prospective bride in the decision as well (she needs to be there!).  Showers are typically held about 1 - 2 months out from the wedding, although any time is okay.  Give the future bride time to register for gifts, though.  Weekend parties work well for couples and families as well as those with busy work schedules.  Evening showers, a brunch and even a luncheon are also great times for a bridal shower.  If the shower is for a coworker, consider hosting it during a lunch hour or right after work one day.

The guest list should be kept relatively short, and make sure that the invitees all have something in common and can interact with each other.  A good number to keep in mind is 20 - 30 guests.  And, make sure that these guests have not been included in any other showers that others may be giving.  It is just as important to not duplicate party lists as it is to omit someone, so keep in close communication with the bride-to-be over the guest list.

Once the date, time and guest list have been determined, it is time to start planning the theme, decor, food and fun that will go along with it.  Check back next time for more bridal shower planning basics!